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One day I had a strange call on my phone. I picked it up and it was his wife. She said, Young woman, do you know the man youre with is married? I responded, Yes, I know. She said, Oh you know and youre still going around with him? I didnt have an answer for her so I hung up. The question that kept ringing in my ears was, How did she get my number?
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I called Kyei and asked him that question. He said his wife came home out of nowhere and when he wasnt looking, she picked up his phone, ran to the bedroom and locked the door to go through his private chats. Well, the answer didnt sit well with me so I probed until he went on a rant about how bad the marriage was and how his own mother and the lady were conspiring to make life hard for him, then kept telling me to stay calm because he was in control and knew what to do.
I asked, You dont want this marriage. Everything about it is giving you diarrhea so why dont you divorce her? He told me according to his lawyer, they couldnt divorce when the marriage was less than two years old so I should be patient with him.
When you catch Kyei doing something wrong today, the next day he would start showering you with good things just to make you forget about the problem: Ive booked a flight for us this Saturday. Lets go on a mini vacation to talk through things. Or I saw this nice dress and thought it would look good on you so lets go get it.
While we were having our own troubles, things were also getting worse at the office. (Note: I had completed my national service and had been retained so I was a permanent employee there.) Everyone was looking at me like the devil who was breaking up a home.
It was unsettling but he always had words to calm me down. At one point, I decided I needed to get a third partys opinion about our situation. I chose my pastor and told Kyei I wanted to take him to meet my pastor to discuss our situation and get his advice.
He agreed and followed me to church to meet my pastor. I wasnt present during their conversation but afterward my pastor told me, Many people are in bad marriages and want out. Even though Im a pastor and dont recommend divorce, this gentleman seems to be going through a lot but still loves you, so take things slow with him and wait until after the two years to see what happens.
Then in 2021, I discovered I was pregnant again. He was so excited. He said he was happy that I would be giving him his first child and promised to do everything to make me and the child happy. First, he told me to quit my job and stay home because he didnt want me attracting attention at the office. He said he would pay my salary every month and also set up a business I could run from home.
I agreed and quit my job.
He rented a larger apartment for me and set up the business as promised. He was extremely involved during my pregnancy. He took me to antenatal appointments, sent money, and bought things I didnt even ask for just to make me comfortable. That man put me in a position where I often wonder if any other man could match it. Beyond the material things, he was fully committed to me through it all. He even moved in with me after getting the bigger apartment.
His wife came across my TikTok post where I was wearing one of the matching shirts Kyei bought for us. After her first call, she thought we had broken up, but when she saw the TikTok post and realized Kyei had the same shirt, she knew we were still together. She called Kyeis mother and told her everything about me. She didnt know I was pregnant at the time.
Kyeis mother called me one Sunday afternoon and gave me a stern warning. Kyei was sitting right next to me while his mother insulted me on the phone, warning me to stay away from her son because she would never accept me as his wife. After the call, Kyei told me to ignore them and that his wife, seeing the divorce was imminent, had teamed up with his mother against him.
I asked, You always talk about divorce but nothing happens. Whats going on?
He showed me a series of chats between him and his lawyer. They had discussed the divorce extensively and the lawyer had even prepared divorce documents. He showed me the documents and how far they had progressed. He also opened a chat between himself and his wife (her number was visible since he hadnt saved her contact).
In the chat they were arguing about the divorce. His wife said, Youre divorcing me because of Adadziwa? What do you see in that girl that youre doing this to me? Kyei responded, Shes the one I truly love. I was forced to marry you. Ill get this divorce and move on with her.
If I had any doubts about the divorce, this evidence laid them to rest.
In 2022, I had a son. When I was discharged from the hospital and came home, he had decorated the house with balloons and welcome home cards and presented me with a huge money bouquet.
Later, we had a small naming ceremony where all his friends attended, including the friend Amanda mentioned. They called me Mrs. Whenever issues arose, he would tell me to forget about his wife and that I was the only one he loved and wanted to make his wife.
My baby was six months old when I saw Kyeis wife calling my phone. I had saved her number, so when I saw the call, I knew there was trouble. I didnt answer. A few minutes later, she sent me photos from our sons naming ceremony where Kyei and I were together. I called Kyei, furious. How did she get these photos? You tell me you dont live with her but somehow shes able to get these things from your phone.
He gave me a lengthy explanation that didnt satisfy me, but I said okay. His wife told Kyeis family about our son, so now they all knew Kyei had a child with someone else.
In 2023, he told me, Lets travel out of the country. I asked, How? He explained his lawyer had advised him to leave the country to help the divorce process. Then he said, When were abroad, we can have the family youve always dreamed of.
Growing up without a father, having only my mother, family became everything I wanted. I often told him I didnt want to raise a child alone I wanted the kind of family I never had.
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When he told me we were going to travel, he looked me in the eyes and said, This is our chance to be that family I promised you. I told you I would never leave your side.
We applied for a U.S. visa as a family. He listed me as his wife on the forms. He paid the travel agency $30,000 to ensure everything went smoothly. We went for the visa interview but unfortunately got denied. He said, Thats not the end. Lets try Canada too, and we did.
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